http://bible.com/8/1jn.4.20.amp If anyone says, I love God, and hates (detests, abominates) his brother [in Christ], he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, Whom he has not seen.
Detesting, or hating, comes from a lack of love. Real love covers a multitude of sin and allows forgiveness to be extended. Unconditional love, and its resulting forgiveness, is the highest form of love expressed.
It is impossible to love our unseen God if we cannot bring ourselves to love His called and chosen who have been created in His image.
Today is a good day to let love, which never fails, heal all of our relationships and show our love for God who first loved and forgave us.