You were placed upon the earth for this time. Every facet of your life is meant to be lived according to the plan of God.
He has a master plan that, if followed, will cause you to enjoy the greatest contentment and fulfillment imaginable.
Not one person is on planet earth by accident. No one was “unwanted” or “a surprise” to God.
You may disagree with this concept at first glance; but consider what God has said in Romans 8:28-31:
“And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose. For whom he did foreknow, he also did predestinate to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brethren. Moreover whom he did predestinate, them he also called: and whom he called,them he also justified: and whom he justified, them he also glorified. What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be against us?
God pre-planned an existence that, if followed, would cause us to come into the full provision, protection, and presence of God.